Hey Patriot, welcome to the community. First off, Thank you for your service and nothing wrong with a Squid, everyone needs a ride across the water right?
The airsoft community is well, going in an interesting direction as of now. We have a group down in Miami getting things together for the milsim community. Get in touch with S.O.G. Nightbreed on these forums is the man to get in touch with as well on that team. Neptune is also a good group of guys, Harley and the others are a great and honorable group to play with.
If you want to check things out before getting too involved, there are late night session at Extreme Rage on Saturday nights, but as I stated, get in touch with Nightbreed for more info on the milsim community.
We here are the SFAA are still raising the funds to get our field operational and when thats up and running and well, its only just begun.
Again, welcome to the community.